Midwest bred Southern transplant, ex-daily journalist, ex-family man, apprentice novelist, open-minded randomly quirky poet stubbornly committed to reciprocity.
Compulsion. Best way I know to quiet an addled mind.
I'm not going to bore you with an interminable list of obligatory and esoteric works with which any writer of conceit should be familiar and, at worst, pretend to hold in sacred esteem. Oh OK, OK!. here's one that if you haven't read it, you really should give it a whirl: "Super Sad True Love Story", by Gary Shteyngart.